Where the Heart is…
The
time has come and gone for the worldly holiday called Valentine’s Day. Many things
can be brought up about this day as can be all the other holidays. Honestly
these worldly holidays are only a counterfeit to God’s own days that He had
established for us. I will bring up some of the common things that are
associated with this particular day as well as things of greater importance.
From this we need to see truly where our Hearts are when it comes to God and
His Word which we claim to hold to such high esteem and holiness.
First we will go back in time before
Valentine’s Day and look at another holiday that the Roman’s enjoyed
celebrating. Lupercalia is what that ancient day was called and was normally
celebrated on February 13th thru the 15th. Two male goats
and a dog where sacrificed, the sacrificial feast followed, after which the
Luperci cut thongs from the skins of the victims, which were called februa, dressed themselves in the skins of the sacrificed
goats, in imitation of Lupercus, and ran round the
walls of the old Palatine city, the line of which was marked with stones, with
the thongs in their hands in two bands, striking the people who crowded near.
Girls and young women would line up on their route to receive lashes from these
whips. This was supposed to ensure fertility, prevent sterility in women and
ease the pains of childbirth. In the last decade of the 5th century
this celebration came to its end and was abolished. This gives you a brief
rundown of what took place during the celebration.
Next we will look a little at Valentine’s
Day. Historically there were at least three Saints by the name Valentine and as
far as all is known the stories surrounding them that are used as the back drop
of today’s Valentine’s Day are all questionable, here is the more commonly
known one. The most popular martyrology associated with Saint Valentine was
that he was imprisoned for performing weddings for soldiers who were forbidden
to marry and for ministering to Christians, who were persecuted under the Roman
Empire; during his imprisonment, he is said to have healed the daughter of his
jailer Asterius. Legend states that before his
execution he wrote her a letter "from your Valentine" as a farewell.
The interesting part is that it wasn’t until around the 11th, 12th,
and 13th century when it was associated with courtly love. Then by
the 15th century it had evolved into an occasion in which lovers
expressed their love for each other by presenting flowers, offering
confectionery, and sending greeting cards. Nowadays it has become more of a
commercialized version of the 15th century.
Is Valentine’s Day a replacement for
Lupercalia? I would think so, even though historically they say there is no
connection between them. Is it a coincident that Valentine’s Day falls on the
same day as Lupercalia? Considering how all the other worldly holidays have
similarly have coincidental timing with ancient pagan holy days, I would side
with that evidence that like all the others this too is just another
replacement of a pagan holy day.
But the clincher to all of this is something
that all those Christians that profess to be followers of Christ do not once
think about as they go about celebrating a worldly holiday is that God has
setup TRUE HOLY DAYS for us to partake of and enjoy throughout the year. That
to me is the saddest truth of all. We are to be doing the things Jesus had
done, including celebrating God’s Holy Days, but yet those same people quickly
dismiss God’s Days and adopt the World’s Days. So if we look at John 15:18, 19 where we see Jesus
making the point of being hated by the world because he has chosen us out of
it, then we have to look at that same scripture in the light of if we are doing
things that puts us in being loved by the world. If you love Jesus, you hate
the world. If you love the world, you hate Jesus. I know this sounds really
bad, but it is true unless you want me to say Jesus is wrong and you are right.
Should our love for one another be for one
day only or should it be year round?
We all have to choose where we want to place
our Heart and as the scriptures point out in Matthew 6:21, where your treasure is, that is where your heart will
be also.
VALENTINE’S
DAY
February was considered
the final month of the Roman year, and on the 15th, citizens celebrated the
festival of Lupercalia. Originally, this week-long party honored the god Faunus, who watched over shepherds
in the hills. The festival also marked the coming of spring. Later on, it
became a holiday honoring Romulus and Remus, the twins who founded Rome after
being raised by a she-wolf in a cave. Eventually, Lupercalia became a multi-purpose event: it celebrated the
fertility of not only the livestock but people as well.
To kick off the
festivities, an order of priests gathered before the Lupercale on the Palatine hill, the
sacred cave in which Romulus and Remus were nursed by their wolf-mother. The
priests then sacrificed a dog for purification, and a pair of young male goats
for fertility. The hides of the goats were cut into strips, dipped in blood,
and taken around the streets of Rome. These bits of hide were touched to both
fields and women as a way of encouraging fertility in the coming year. Girls
and young women would line up on their route to receive lashes from these
whips. There is a theory that this tradition may have survived in the form of
certain ritual Easter Monday whippings.
After the priests
concluded the fertility rites, young women placed their names in a jar. Men
drew names in order to choose a partner for the rest of the celebrations -- not
unlike later customs of entering names in a Valentine lottery.
To the Romans, Lupercalia
was a monumental event each year. When Mark Antony was the master of the Luperci College of
Priests, he chose the festival of Lupercalia in 44 BC as the time to offer the
crown to Julius Caesar. By about the fifth century, however, Rome was beginning
to move towards Christianity, and Pagan rites were frowned upon. Lupercalia was
seen as something only the lower classes did, and eventually the festival
ceased to be celebrated.
Valentine's Day derives
from a Christianized version of a pagan holiday. Just as the Christians stole
Christmas and Easter, from the pagans, they took this celebration from the
Roman pagans.
If you do not adhere to
Christology, then why would you want to celebrate to the name of a Catholic
Saint who had nothing to do with the original festival?
The name
"Valentine" comes from one of two Christian martyrs of the 3rd
century. One describes a Roman Christian martyred during the persecution of Claudis II, the other, a bishop of Terni who got martyred in
Rome. (Most Christian celebrations have a preoccupation with death and
martyrdom.) There occurs several versions of the
Christian legend but no one knows the truth for sure. Probably at least one of
them did live and died, but we have little else to go on.
In pre-Christian Rome,
people celebrated Lupercalia, a Roman holiday that took place during the ides
of February (the 15th). They believed that the goddess Juno Februata
(where the name February comes from) inflicted her "love fever" on
the young and unwary. The fertility festival of Lupercalia (in honor of the
pastoral god Lupercus) involved sexual excesses such
as running around nude. The festival included the sacrificing of a goats
whereupon women would be whipped with the hides of the animals just slain.
Women would line up for the men to hit them, believing that it would make them
fertile.
For years the Christian
church tried to suppress the festival of Lupercalia. Interestingly, the Church
did not object to the festival for its love celebrations but for the pagan
beliefs that rejected the Christian god. In 496 C.E., Pope Gelasius abolished
Lupercalia, and later the celebration of Valentine, named after the legendary
St. Valentine, was established. Cupid was recast into a cherub, and the
Lupercalia festival continues much as it had before, but without the sexual
excesses.
So
the idea of Valentine's Day did not originate from Christianity, but from
"heretic" pagans.
Around the same time, the
Normans celebrated Galatin's Day. Galatin
meant "lover of women." That was likely confused with St. Valentine's
Day at some point, in part because they sound alike.
As the years went on, the
holiday grew sweeter. Chaucer and Shakespeare romanticized it in their work,
and it gained popularity throughout Britain and the rest of Europe. Handmade
paper cards became the tokens-du-jour in the Middle Ages.
Eventually, the tradition
made its way to the New World. The industrial revolution ushered in
factory-made cards in the 19th century. And in 1913, Hallmark Cards of Kansas
City, Mo., began mass producing valentines. February has not been the same
since.
Today, the holiday is big
business: According to market research firm IBIS World, Valentine's Day sales
reached $17.6 billion last year; this year's sales are expected to total $18.6
billion.
And so
the celebration of Valentine's Day goes on, in varied ways. Many will break the
bank buying jewelry and flowers for their beloveds. Others will celebrate in a
SAD (that's Single Awareness Day) way, dining alone and binging on self-gifted
chocolates. A few may even be spending this day the same way the early Romans
did. But let's not go there.
So
if you are a True believer in the TRUE GOD, should you really participate
in the secular pagan holiday being portrayed as a Christian holiday?
As for me and my family
we will follow only the true Holy days
of the True God.